Facts speak louder than Good Reasons

Ladies, ladies, when a man will stop looking as before, stop trying to see you, for calling you or having any contact with you, the natural human reaction, especially when you're in love is apanicarte and tackle, arrangements as soon as possible in order not to lose the man who brings his head. Just the worst thing you can do is try to fix it and to convince that suits you, what you want and should not leave you.

As a basic principle we have said we should never take more than they are receiving from them. However, almost always as they begin to move away and stop calling and to be present, women do the opposite and began to call more, send messages, emails, chats, and fly to the fence they send gifts or they are surprised - all these actions come from a place of fear -. Needless to say that they are surprised and not pleasantly.

When you answer a call or message you are giving a very clear signal: is ignoring you because he will not contact you ... scream actions than words silent and your stress by some other means of communication, you are giving an option to ignore and make you feel rejected, that in their eyes (and even before your own) reduces your worth. The fact that we want to convince to be with you puts you under it. When you know how much convincing it does not walk anyone. That is gone, is gone.

Send gifts or "little details" when he is asking for space (although he has not verbalized, almost never do, they are men and find it very difficult to talk about their feelings, I take ... you remember that your brother told him that men do not cry?) is to reward their behavior, withthe behavior is ignoring you and hurting. It's like a dog (puppy) will give a prize every time you pee in the house (sorry dudes by comparison) is a way of saying that you like to be ignored and mistreated.

So what to do??? That is ultimately the general question ... It's easy, when one wey you walk away and stop paying attention and answering your calls or messages, respond with the same courtesy, do the same.

Do not ask yourself if you did not receive your message, or if your email did not come, they received them and even if there is no reason for him not to do anything to contact you.

Your wey know that the longer it takes to get you, the greater the risk of losing you, unless you clear the passes you searching for him as if your whole being and your life depended on it.

The best thing to do when this happens is to have faith in yourself first, then him and finally in the relationship. If at the time that his behavior begins to change you and you jump start looking, you're not allowing to take the consequences of their actions. Do not you have faith in you as the woman incredibly hard to forget that you, not you have faith in him as a man capable of not losing the woman you are interested and then not have faith in what they started to build together, that so worth it will not be easy to let be destroyed.

If he walks away when you do the same, give her room to see that you can lose. Knowing that you can lose, necessarily make you think. When you let this break in a relationship (worth) increase the likelihood of his return. For a man to fall in love with a woman has to have a chance to think about it ... can not think of you if you're always available, nor if you know that everyday you call this or that hour. Never the bride convietas table.

The men fall for women who feel uncomfortable, I do not mean to bother them when they come out publicly by putting together pedagogical, and leperos nacadas say in front of their parents. I mean women who do leave their comfort zone and challenge them to do things they would rather not do and yet it just to get their attention. Be the first call, to initiate a chat or send a message ...

When your kid goes away and you refuse to accept the obvious and call him to ask what happens, to see if you did something that offended him, or just to look very cool, you take away the opportunity to make an effort.

Stay out and friendly when it appears, because it will appear as long as you're not trampled (with call and message-ignored-) sending the subliminal message you're worth so little that you have to remember that you exist and I say because I myself once did not work, is repellent.

You can be sure that a change of behavior if it means anything, something that is not good, or is losing interest in you, feeling someone else's interest or both. Your reaction can mean the difference in this space and miss you back or NO miss you and not return.

You can also make the case that if you did not call back do not either, in which case, anyway YOUR RELATIONSHIP look was finished and only prolong the painful process. You saved a penalty call, email or message ignored ... which translates into a rejection more. Bad for your self-esteem, bad for your image.

Even if you call and ask if anyone else is and tells you not, that you want and nothing has changed, what you feel judged by their actions, not their words. Facts speak louder than words!

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